I’m supposed to focus on how I feel, not on “the package”—but it’s hard when the package is so beautifully wrapped.
He's sweet, too, talking about his grandma, and we follow dinner with drinks.
Agreed—as a curvy girl, I want to avoid first-date surprises. I haven’t worn a Halloween costume since I went as a pack of grape Hubba Bubba in sixth grade.
If they're older/paunchier/have more neck bolts than he does in the photos, choose compassion, says New York dating coach Connell Barrett.
Who wanted to be one of those lonely hearts trolling the singles bars of cyberspace?“He probably lied because it’s a sore spot.” Just have one polite drink. You may wind up charmed—and it’s the human thing to do.One reason I’ve been passive about online dating: Most of the guys have been a little conservative for my taste.For the others, we do one of me outside in a green dress, one where I’m wearing something sparkly, and another where I’m standing on an escalator.This doesn’t reveal much about me besides my aversion to stairs, but it’s a full body shot, which Hoffman recommends.