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And when it's happening to you, you want to know about it, and you're well within your rights to seek ANSWERS, damn it.
There's nothing malicious, creepy, or predatory about sexual discovery.
Again, this is all part of children figuring out the sex and body things that no one will talk to them about (or hasn't thought yet to talk to them about).
Girls, on the other hand, are taught, whether overtly or by passive societal conventions, that there's something inherently wrong with being sexually aware.
Little girls not only look at each others bits, some will, from time to time, be naked with their friends, and even try out kissing. For me, none of it was arousing (not like my sweet, sweet pillow boyfriend), but it was interesting and certainly informative, which is another facet of little girls interacting with their sexualities.
It doesn't mean they're lesbians or not lesbians or molesters or freaks. Sexual discovery is part a natural and insatiable curiosity, but too often it's stifled by society's backwards ideas about what a girl should be and how she should be it.
This week it came to light that when Lena Dunham was 7 years old, she looked at her little sister's vagina, and an alarming number of people have dubbed her a "child molester." She also did other things critics find offensive, like masturbate next to her sleeping sister and bribe her sister for affection (although the latter doesn't seem to be as much of a point of contention).
I'm shaking my head in disbelief as I write because I can't believe that such innocuous things have become the subject of so much vitriol.
Meanwhile, her sister was busy shoving pebbles in there, which should show you the relative maturity and comprehension level of these two children. As far as I'm concerned, it's a cute and funny anecdote about two little girls awkwardly growing up.